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The journey to where we are has been fraught with the ups and downs like any marriage where the players show up in their wounded adolescent (like most of us do!) We were in love when we came together but we were also hurt young people looking to fill the void of our emptiness with what we thought the other could provide. Scott and I both came from trauma and by the grace of Source and our own grit we have forged a marriage where we are very often in our awakened masculine and feminine. We have transcended many of our wounds including control, criticism, navigating financial rupture, depression and a whole host of other issues. We are freer and more in support of each other’s authenticity than ever. How? The transformative work of self inquiry. He does it his way, I do it mine and together we balance the scales. It’s fucking hard and exquisitely fulfilling. Just like life. Doesn’t matter what tools you practice as long as you are living an examined life, you are on the right track. //✨#comehometoyourSelf 📷 @jgrahamphotography ...

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The horse is the spirit of my future self- I love that I pulled this trio. As my beloved analytical husband declares “confirmation biases”. Yes, true fact. I do look to confirm any bias that indicates life is happening FOR me, not TO me. Horse medicine whispers that I am on the perfect path toward building a future with momentum so reliable, so supportive, that I can ride on its back toward any goal, no matter how difficult the terrain. Building a second business while maintaining growth, quality and profit in my design firm and being an inspirational coach for other Beauty Makers isn’t something I know how to do but I’m doing it! All while running a household, being a mom and having a hot, passionate love affair with my husband. I’m paving the way with Spirit at the helm, allowing and trusting that I can’t get it wrong so long as I show up and take action. Since Horse personality is fully awakened , fully alive and cannot be defeated I am confirming my bias that life is asking this of me and I feel unstoppable!. How about you? Saying yes to a bigger, more fully expressed life? Tell me! I’m here to witness and encourage you. //✨#comehometoyourSelf ...

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Growing up in a patriarchal household meant I bought the story that pleasure was an outright sin. As I grew older and I rewrote that story, I started realizing that I could allow myself to feel pleasure to the degree that I felt self worth. You can imagine how that has allowed all aspects of my life to improve- being a mother, a lover, a business owner, a friend. The more turned on I am by life and all the exquisite moments it brings has come with self inquiry and practice. What brings you pleasure? On my list...baths, hikes, intimacy, flowers, beauty of any kind, meditating, facials, massage, giving gifts, retreats! What are yours? I’d love to know...tag your pleasure seeker friends so they can share their pleasures too. Sisters love to share. //✨#comehometoyourSelf ...

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For as long as I can remember I have woken in the morning wondering what I didn’t get done, what I’m doing wrong, what I need to do. The exhaustion I feel from allowing those thoughts to permeate my morning is what motivates me to change it. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life choosing thoughts that cause me to suffer. Our life is out picturing the questions we ask ourselves. And if I’m going to believe thoughts that I’m thinking, why not make them good ones? It’s my choice. What do you love about yourself? What are the questions that allow you to feel good about you? //✨#comehometoyourSelf ...

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We are able to create beauty to the degree that we are able to connect to Source. Bringing our fully expressed selves to the creating beauty allows us to feel connected to what we are creating-soulful, joy filled personal and business lives. I will be sharing the tools and practices I’ve used to create an energy rich, connected life and profitable interior design firm. Please join me and a sisterhood of women as we deep dive into self inquiry and growth at the Divine Hustler retreat November 7th through the 10th in Napa Valley. DM me for the deets. //✨#comehomeyourSelf ...

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I saw these words yesterday @tdmpiedmont and the timing was beyond perfect. I have been thinking the same thing exactly. They are in alignment (pun intended) with my perspective on pursuing my dream to be a teacher, a light worker, and inspirer of other beauty makers. I hold myself back because there is still part of me that shames me for daring to think I could do such a thing. But I am clear on my intention and desire to take action toward my dreams. Feeling more audacious and more willing to be more visible and vulnerable. And that is actually where the magic happens. I know this to be true. How about you? What dreams do you have that if you could get clear on your intentions would allow you to take action and create the magical life you came here to live? //✨#comehometoyourSelf ...

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Have you tuned your vibration to be in full receiving mode this morning? If not it only takes a minute. Sit quietly, close your eyes, take a breath in and ask yourself some questions like “what am I grateful for? “ “What do I love about myself? “ Soon you will be feeling lighter, easier and breezier . The higher you go, the more you connect to Source the more good vibes you will attract. Today I am willing to receive all the abundance Source wants to bring my way. How does it get any better than that?//✨#comehometoyourSelf ...

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Mark your calendars beauty makers! Coming in November a three day women’s retreat in beautiful Napa Valley. ✨✨This retreat has been created for designers who are spiritually curious and desire more soul connection and skills for doing life with flow. In other words being a divine hustler. If you are hungry to live with more joy, more connection to Self and more resourced in your life as a beauty maker or a business owner then this retreat is for you. Make yourself a priority and join us in a deep dive of spiritually conscious personal growth work and business practices. You will experience a deeper connection to your Self so you can bring more heart, more connection, more YOU to your life. Whether you own your own firm or hope to someday, I will share personal growth and business practices to live life more resourced. It’s an inside job! DM me for now, more deets coming. ...

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You are a miracle. We see what we look for. I’m looking for love, miracles and the expansion of my soul. I’m looking for connection, growth and what’s good about you. I’m looking for ways to see the goodness in you. I’m looking to see how I can bless other peoples lives. How about you? What are you looking for? keep looking! You’ll find it. //✨#comehometoyourSelf ...

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