Perfectionism: The Tool of the Patriarchy

If you’ve been following me here, and on my insta, you know I’ve been thinking a lot about healing from perfectionism. I had another revelation recently. My perfectionism, especially when I turn against myself is about controlling whether people like me or not. What would happen if we stopped caring about being liked? I have realized that the thing that keeps me stuck in not stepping out and saying what’s true for me, is trying to edit and restrain my bigness.

From Preacher to Teacher

I may have started out feeling like I wanted to shout my discoveries from the rooftops, to create my own goddess pulpit, share my wisdom. And this is what I want to do, what I am doing. AND… What I am realizing now is that more than a preacher, I want to be a teacher. Because a teacher is sharing knowledge and wisdom gained to an audience that wants to learn.

Divine Work to Create Change: How I Use “The Work” of Byron Katie 

In my role as the Divine Hustler, I am an inspire-er, a teacher, an uplifter. I remind people who they are. I offer tools to women who want to awaken the Divine Feminine in their creative entrepreneurship — including and especially other Interior Designers. It’s my intention that by sharing my discoveries, the things I’ve learned and done (and learned from some more) while growing my design firm, I can be of service to others on this path. As Interior Design principals and solopreneurs, we are whole beings.

Morning Prayers: Every Divine Hustler needs a prayer practice

Every Divine Hustler needs a prayer practice. As the woman, business owner, goddess, I am, and am always expanding into — this is a foundational tool for me. When I’m resourced, I try to write one every day. Please note: I don’t do this perfectly! Here is one from a recent Monday morning: Sweet spirit, I feel your presence so deeply this morning and truly feel the connection in allowing my mind to still. I know and feel the grace of oneness the awe and beauty of my humanity and the miracle of my soul.

Who Am I To Share This? Who Am I NOT To?

How dare I create this website, this IDENTITY? Who am I to share this wisdom? There are so many teachers, healers, lightworkers, wisdom sharers. Why should I take up space in the field? These are thoughts that have held me back for so long. And now, I am stepping into the light. I am sharing my wisdom, my experiences, what’s up in my life right now, what lessons I’m learning… In the hopes that it will benefit you in your life, in all the roles you are performing or aspiring to perform.

Welcome to the Bonfire

Come warm your hands, heart, and soul. If you are here, chances are you are a Light Worker. You feel a drive to change your own life and the lives of others by shining your light, brightly. Individually we can all light one candle at a time. But, if we come together, we can stoke a larger fire. I offer this site as a place to come for inspiration about transformation, to discover the tools that foster growth, play with universal principles, develop our practices.