Perfectionism: The Tool of the Patriarchy
If you’ve been following me here, and on my insta, you know I’ve been thinking a lot about healing from perfectionism. I had another revelation recently. My perfectionism, especially when I turn against myself is about controlling whether people like me or not. What would happen if we stopped caring about being liked? I have realized that the thing that keeps me stuck in not stepping out and saying what’s true for me, is trying to edit and restrain my bigness.